Haveyou ever worry about some rumors about you? Do you feel sad about wheneveryou remember the people who hurt you badly? Have you get tired ofhearing your parents said your classmates are better than you in study, or thekids in the neighborhood find a good job while you are not. You think you arein a pathetic predicament because you care too much about others eyes,especially from the one you love.

你有沒有擔憂過有關于你的謠言呢？你有沒有每當想起那些傷害過你的人就覺得悲傷呢？你有沒有厭煩你父母對你說你的同學學習比你好，或者鄰居家的孩子找的工作比你好呢？你之所以覺得你生活在個可悲的困境里是因為你太過于在乎別人的眼光，特別是你愛的人的眼光。

Lifeis too short to live happy, you are who you are. You don’t have to pay too muchattention to the opinion from others about you, whether it is good or bad. Ifit is praise, you will feel happy and your self-confidence will be increased. Butif it is detraction, you might feel horrible, and you may self-deprecation.

人生苦短，行樂需及時，你就是你，你無須太過注意別人對你的看法，無論那是好的還是壞的。如果那是贊揚，你會感覺到快樂，你的自信心也會增加。但如果那是誹謗，你會感覺很糟糕，你可能還會自我貶低。

Whyshould we care about that? Why can’t we live just the way we are? Because thereare too many social rules that restrain us. We have to study hard in order tobe able to get a good job; we have to smile all the time in order to makepeople feel you are kind to everyone, even the one who is mean to you. You haveto earn piles of cash so that give your parents “face”.

為什么我們要關心那些？為什么我們不能按我們的想法活著？因為有太多的社會規則約束著我們。我們要努力學習為了能夠找到一份好工作；我們要時時刻刻保持微笑為了讓人們覺得你對每個人都很友善，即使是對你刻薄的人。你得賺一大堆鈔票來給你的父母臉上添光。

Ina word, it is all the matter of face, such as school thinks long good-lookingface, and the office has a rich have found that, in the face of love is face. Ithink it is time for us to lay down our face, live the way we are, don’t livein other’s eyes. Just be yourself, you will feel happier than before.

總之，所有的問題都是面子問題，例如在學校里覺得長得好看是有面子，而辦公室里覺得找個有錢的就有面子一樣，其實愛的都是面子。我認為是時候該放下我們的面子，活出自我，不要活在別人的眼光里。做你自己，你會覺得比以前快樂。